There are different types of food to order for different occasions. There is interview food. That is, during a job interview process, you maybe asked to meet for lunch or dinner. Food is not the reason for the meeting is it just an excuse. In that situation do not order loud food, finger food, messy food or food that requires a lot of attention or effort to eat. Conversely, there is Super Bowl party food. Loud, crunchy, messy food. In this situation, the food is equally as important as the occasion. But what about first date food?
Within seconds of glancing at the menu, I usually spot the meal I would really like to order. But what is the appropriate thing to order? No matter how self-assured I may be, I don’t want to appear to be a pig. So, I’ll sit back and allow him to set the standard.
Time passes as I sit there wishing that I had mind reading capabilities to determine what is he going to order. What if I order more food than he does? What if I order something too expensive? Oh no! Suddenly, I cringe at the thought of my regular eating habits. Gobbling down a jumbo burger and a large order of fries, in the time it takes for a traffic signal to change from red to green, or consuming a bag of chips, leftover Chinese food and a few cookies in the eight minutes it takes to microwave my real dinner, could be frightening to the faint of heart.
Will my food preferences make an impression? Good or bad? Is my best bet is to order a salad, something from the appetizer menu or nothing at all? This tactic may give him the impression that I eat like a bird, that I’m delicate. Who am I kidding?
Many women under estimate the intelligence of the men they date. I have found that most men have, at least, a basic knowledge of bodily function. They know that human body requires food to sustain life and they do not believe that it can survive on “something light” or just a small tossed salad. They also realize that it takes more than a small plate of steamed vegetables for a woman to maintain 180 pounds of weight.
The proclamation, “I’m not really hungry” is a lie. You know it. He knows it. The only thing you may accomplish with this line is in convincing your date that you must eat like a horse when you are alone, at home.
The proclamation, “I had a late lunch,” is an insult. This single sentence informs your date that you made a conscious decision to ruin your appetite and the dinner plans he had made for the two of you.
If your thought is to save him money, forget it. Men are not impressed by the fact that you are counting their money.
Your date is not going to be impressed with your self-control. A request for dressing on the side, a lemon wedge or something grilled “dry” is about as intriguing as reporting that you don’t kiss on the first date.
After a brief study of the situation, my suggestion is: if you are hungry, order food.